Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Hope for the best (expect the worst)

September 7th, 2008 · 1 Comment

145abbce Hope for the best (expect the worst)

My blog is on the list of Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2008!

Midori’s next Rope Bondage Dojo will be in Kansas City, MO on October 18th and 19th. Like all the others, it will sell out!

I never thought of Toy Story this way.

Kinky is a documentary about Black Americans into BDSM.

Save $25. Buy your New York Leather Weekend VIP passes at TES meetings for $75 rather than the $100 on-line price.

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Glenda

September 6th, 2008 · No Comments

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We celebrated Glenda’s birthday with a weekend in West Virginia at the Pond House.
birthdaycakes Glenda
Lime cake and chocolate/peanut butter cake

No internet, no cell phones. Just a lot of relaxing. We hot tubbed, played Pirate Monolpoly, and rescued damsels that had been left tied up in the woods (first we molested them). Of course there was amazing food. And great sex.

bagel Glenda
I brought bagels and lox from NYC.

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For her birthday I gave her an NJOY Pure Plug (medium). This is just like mine. It’s shiny smooth stainless steel and very heavy. I love the weight and, unlike most butt plugs, it stays in my butt! I hope she loves it just as much as I love mine.

It seems like lately, I am getting these for all my favorite people. For Don Quixote’s birthday, I gave him the NJOY Pfun Plug which is shaped specially for guys to stimulate the prostate. He likes it a lot.

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Sugasm #145

September 6th, 2008 · No Comments

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The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #146? Submit a link to your best post of the weekby emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom

This Week’s Picks
Being Civil
“They couldn’t understand what the appeal of a civil union was for us.”

Clandestine Rendezvous
“He turned around to kiss me and I melted.”

Hotel Sex
“The excitement is too much for both of us”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Sugar Bank

Editor’s Choice
You Can’t Make This Shit Up, Part 2

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
Let’s Pretend…
Masturbaticon I
Our Peculiar Erotica
“Pay No Attention To That Man Behind The Curtain”
Taking Charge of Your Own Pleasure
Tease and Denial: In Defense of Subtlety
Things that make you go Mmmmmm

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Babygate Continues!
Vibrators of the Future

Sex Work
Pillow Humping Cam Pussy

BDSM & Fetish
Arms to the sky
Beads
brock’s Last Task
My surprise for Daddy
Naughty, Naughty…Nice
The New Pet (fiction)
A proper thank you
The Runaround.
Welcome to Kinky Sex Link

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Bare back HNT
HNT - Stripping for the Bath Brush - F/m Spanking Pic
Sasha Grey (NewNudeCity)

Erotic Writing and Experiences
8:55 - On My Way…
Asian massage parlors
Awakening
Brains in her cunt
The “Ex-Pat” Love [2nd. Revision]
Fantasy Friday: Lips Like Sugar
Hausfrau
In the Early Morning Darkness
Not Quite Poetry
On the Back of a Motorcycle
Release
Your first time with me

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William Howle

September 6th, 2008 · No Comments

William Howle passed away on August 21st at the age of 49, from liver cancer.  His partner, John, is asking everyone who knew him to please announce the memorial service which he is arranging in William’s
honor.  It will take place 6pm on Sunday, September 21 at 300 W. 46th Street, community room and garden. All are invited.  Please come and share your memories of William.

I knew William through Leather Pride Night.  He volunteered every year.

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We have a winner!

September 5th, 2008 · No Comments

The winner of my spanking scenario contest is kinkoverdrive!

Here is her winning entry:

Lately, I’m digging “surprise spankings.” Previously I preferred the more planned out scenes, but of late I’ve experienced some out of the blue spankings–my boyfriend and I in the middle of a conversation tossing me down, over his knee, pulling down my jeans or up my skirt, and whacking the shit out of my ass barehanded.

And kinkoverdrive receives a copy of Rachel Kramer Bussel’s Spanked: Red-Cheeked Erotica We have a winner! book.

2801577087_d78f1324d9 We have a winner!

Thanks to everybody who participated.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates - Sept 4-10

September 4th, 2008 · No Comments

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Thursday, September 4

Friday, September 5
NYC Munch
DSF: “Transition from BDSM to Master/slave” with Master Taino

Saturday, September 6
TES-TNG: “Back to School Excursion” w/ TNG co-facilitators Michelle Storm & Richard Cordage

Sunday, September 7
LSM: Safety & Orientation for Pledge Members
MasT: Metro NY: “Masters in Service” w/ Master Taino
NYboL Car Wash
Le Carnaval Fetish “Back to School”
The Baroness‘ Fetish Retinue Party and Latex Lovelies Competition

Monday, September 8

Tuesday, September 9
TES: Membership Meeting, Election

Wednesday, September 10
TES Novice Group: “Basic Skills…Female Domination - CBT & Other Terrible Things to do to Men” w/ Miss Calico

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Not a masochist

September 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

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She told me that she was not a masochist, but she wanted to be beaten until she cried. We started with floggers and she could take quite the beating! I finally got her crying with a single tail. It ended as an intense and beautiful scene.

Later, we all went back to her hotel room. Three of them blindfolded me, tied me spreadeagled to the bed and tortured me. Then they flipped me over, fucked both my holes and made me suck cock.

We have plans for later this month.

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500 sheets in a ream

September 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

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The Midwest Teen Sex Show did an episode on Fetishes. Excellent!

New York State can continue to recognize same sex marriages from other states. I would like to see these marriage performed here, too.

Some of the NYC community is coming together to raise money for a friend who is battling Lymphoma B cancer. The first event will be a Rope Share fundraiser open to all (beginner to experienced).

As pointed out here before, I really dislike John Catsimaditis and he wants to run for mayor of NYC. Here is another story of what a pig he is. He owns Gristede’s, which a court ruled has violated federal and state laws by failing to pay overtime to hundreds of lower-level managers at its supermarkets.

Hurry! My Spanking Scenario contest ends tonight at Midnight.

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Find Lolita – September 2008 and beyond

September 3rd, 2008 · No Comments

7 Find Lolita – September 2008 and beyond

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September 10-15 – Maryland
Dark Odyssey Summer Camp: teaching Kidz Rule, Sensory Deprivation & Control, Caning: from Ah! to Zowie!!!, and Look Ma: No Rope!

September 19-21 – Chicago, IL
Kinky Kollege: teaching Caning: from Ah!” to “Zowie!!! and Stuff Yer Hole

September 26-28 – San Jose, CA
Folsom Fringe: teaching How To Play With Needles and Kidz Rule

October 4 – NYC
Sex Positive Journalism Awards: I am emceeing

Oct 31-Nov 3 - Washington DC.
Black Rose: teaching: CBT In A Nutshell, King Tut’s Kink: Mummification! and Contracts for Play or Serious Commitment

February 13-15 - Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire teaching TBA

February 27 - March 1 - Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

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Labor Day Weekend

August 29th, 2008 · No Comments

flag Labor Day Weekend

On Friday night I am teaching for TES-TNG. I have a lot of fun things to do.

It’s Amazing What You Can Find
Don’t have to have a lot of money to stock your toy bag? Mix a little imagination with ordinary, everyday items and you can have some fabulous SM toys. This workshop will cover finding, converting and using mundane items for SM play. Bring one of your own pervertibles for some kinky show-and-tell. Come on! That Paddleboro kitchen spoon is the most famous pervertible in the country.

On Saturday morning I will head out to the Pond House in West Virginia. No internet! And spotty cell phone service, if any. But there will be good friends, good food, good play and a hot tub…

Have a great weekend!

Political PS: I knew it! McCain picked a woman as his running mate. This is going to be a very interesting race. Sarah Palin may be female and young but she is very anti-choice. She’s not very friendly towards LGBT issues either. And she’s got some kind of Troopergate thing being investigated. I am Obama all the way.

2008_08_mccainto Labor Day Weekend

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