January 23-25 - Phoenix, AZ Southwest Leather Conference: teaching Relationships From Scratch and Mixing Rope Bondage and Sex
January 28 - NYC TES Bondage SIG: teaching “That Will Shut `Em Up!” w/ Redhead Sue
January 30 - NYC TES TNG: teaching “Dynamics of Co-Topping” w/ Boymeat
February 13-15 - Washington, DC Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: teaching TBA
February 19 - NYC TES Relationships SIG: on a panel “Intersection of Love, Sex and SM”
February 20 – NYC LSM: teaching Single Tails – The Epitome of SM
February 27 - March 1 - Dallas, TX South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage
March 19 – San Francisco, CA The Citadel: teaching Fantasy Role Play
March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA IMsL: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching Mummification
April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA
We got to spend some time with Nayland Blake at his retrospective show, Behavior, at Location One. Here’s a video of him explaining one piece that is based on the Marquis De Sade’s Philosophy in the Bedroom.
Come to the Location One gallery on Friday, January 9. At 5pm, it will be a restaging of Nayland Blake’s 1998 performance piece “Gorge”. An hour-long performance during which the artist sits shirtless in front of a table full of food from which the audience is free to feed him. And at 8pm, there will be a series of performances by other artists in response to Blake’s work.
Yes, that is me at Macy’s with NYC’s New Years Eve ball. I won’t be spending any time with it tonight, neither in Times Square, nor on TV.
It’s cold and blustery here in NYC. Luckily, my plans are totally indoors with a small circle of friends. As is my usual, I will avoid the countdown, the ball drop, and the toasting and kissing.
One of the reasons I was very excited about going to Ft Lauderdale was because I would get to see Son Chris again and be able to spend time with him. He was excited, too. A few months ago Daddy Derrick decided to take care of the planning and surprise him. I agreed to leave it all up to him.
And everybody lied to Chris. He was told that I would not get there until late Sunday. When he wrote to me and told me that the was excited about my visit, I was a nasty bitch. I wrote back that I would try to ft him into my very busy schedule.
We actually got in on Saturday evening. Derrick took Chris to Lester’s Diner and we went too. At first he thought that he was running into Peggy, Leslie and teresa by accident (I was hiding behind the car). But then I jumped out and surprised him.
To add to the surprise, we all stayed at Daddy Derrick’s house for a big slumber party.
The best cheap eats in the city is Vanessa’s Dumpling House, 118 Eldridge Street near Broome Street. Their specialty is the dumplings, but I never get them. I get the Peking Duck Sesame Pancake Sandwich for $2.25. A little greasy but I love it! If I am really hungry I get one of their fruit smoothies, too. By the time I finish that, I am too full for dumplings. Where else in NYC can I get a delicious meal for under five bucks?
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My trip to West Virginia took me through Baltimore where we got to see some pretty holiday lights. After my last trip to Baltimore, Thor threatened that he would no longer be my friend if I went to Baltimore again without bringing him back some Berger Cookies. So, Thor, I have Berger Cookies for you.
I tried the Berger Cookies myself. They are cake-y like NYC black and whites, but the frosting to cake ratio is much higher. It’s too much frosting for my taste, unless you are in a frosting mood.
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