Lolita Wolf’s Predictions & Predilections

As a BDSM Sex Educator and Author, I don’t just talk about it. I do it! And then I write about it.

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Find Lolita – January 2009 and beyond

January 5th, 2009 · No Comments

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January 23-25 - Phoenix, AZ
Southwest Leather Conference: teaching Relationships From Scratch and Mixing Rope Bondage and Sex

January 28 - NYC
TES Bondage SIG: teaching “That Will Shut `Em Up!” w/ Redhead Sue

January 30 - NYC
TES TNG: teaching “Dynamics of Co-Topping” w/ Boymeat

February 13-15 - Washington, DC
Dark Odyssey Winter Fire: teaching TBA

February 19 - NYC
TES Relationships SIG: on a panel “Intersection of Love, Sex and SM”

February 20 – NYC
LSM: teaching Single Tails – The Epitome of SM

February 27 - March 1 - Dallas, TX
South Plains Leatherfest: teaching Decorative Piercing, Co-Topping and Metal Bondage

March 19 – San Francisco, CA
The Citadel: teaching Fantasy Role Play

March 19-22 – San Francisco, CA

IMsL: coordinating the Celebrity Auction and teaching Mummification

April 9-12 – Atlanta, GA
Frolicon: teaching three classes TBA

July 17-19 - Denver, CO
Thunder In The Mountains: teaching classes TBA

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Nayland Blake’s Margaret Dumont as Madame de Mistival

January 5th, 2009 · No Comments

We got to spend some time with Nayland Blake at his retrospective show, Behavior, at Location One.  Here’s a video of him explaining one piece that is based on the Marquis De Sade’s Philosophy in the Bedroom.

Come to the Location One gallery on Friday, January 9. At 5pm, it will be a restaging of Nayland Blake’s 1998 performance piece “Gorge”. An hour-long performance during which the artist sits shirtless in front of a table full of food from which the audience is free to feed him. And at 8pm, there will be a series of performances by other artists in response to Blake’s work.

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NYC Weekly Leather Dates: Jan 1-7

January 2nd, 2009 · 1 Comment

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Thursday, January 1
Happy New Year!

Friday, January 2
NYC Munch
DSF: Judgment Night

Saturday, January 3

Sunday, January 4
MAsT MetroNY: “What do you consider essential components of an M/s relationship?”

Monday, January 5

Tuesday, January 6
TES: ” Skin Stapling 101” w/ Slutress

Wednesday, January 7
Pleasure Salon
TES Dominant Men/submissive women’s Group: “Starting over: finding a new male dominant or submissive “

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Happy New Year!

December 31st, 2008 · No Comments

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Yes, that is me at Macy’s with NYC’s New Years Eve ball.  I won’t be spending any time with it tonight,  neither in Times Square, nor on TV.

It’s cold and blustery here in NYC.   Luckily, my plans are totally indoors with a small circle of friends.  As is my usual, I will avoid the countdown, the ball drop, and the toasting and kissing.

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Tiko

December 31st, 2008 · 1 Comment

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Peggy and I went scuba diving in Belize.  Tiko was our divemaster.

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Surprising Chris

December 31st, 2008 · No Comments

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Son Chris and Daddy Derrick at Lester’s Diner

One of the reasons I was very excited about going to Ft Lauderdale was because I would get to see Son Chris again and be able to spend time with him. He was excited, too. A few months ago Daddy Derrick decided to take care of the planning and surprise him. I agreed to leave it all up to him.

And everybody lied to Chris. He was told that I would not get there until late Sunday. When he wrote to me and told me that the was excited about my visit, I was a nasty bitch. I wrote back that I would try to ft him into my very busy schedule.

We actually got in on Saturday evening. Derrick took Chris to Lester’s Diner and we went too. At first he thought that he was running into Peggy, Leslie and teresa by accident (I was hiding behind the car). But then I jumped out and surprised him.

To add to the surprise, we all stayed at Daddy Derrick’s house for a big slumber party.

 Surprising Chris
Peggy, Derrick, Chris. Leslie and teresa

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Vanessa’s Dumpling House

December 31st, 2008 · 1 Comment

 Vanessas Dumpling House
The best cheap eats in the city is Vanessa’s Dumpling House, 118 Eldridge Street near Broome Street. Their specialty is the dumplings, but I never get them. I get the Peking Duck Sesame Pancake Sandwich for $2.25. A little greasy but I love it! If I am really hungry I get one of their fruit smoothies, too. By the time I finish that, I am too full for dumplings. Where else in NYC can I get a delicious meal for under five bucks?
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Crash Pad Series

December 29th, 2008 · No Comments

 Crash Pad Series

KinkOnDemand  has partnered with Blowfish to host Shine Louise Houston’s The Crash Pad Series.  Part 1, Part 2, Part 3 and Part 4. This is the best and hottest hardcore indie feminist dyke porn on the net.

All current members and new subscribers receive 10% off all KinkOnDemand shoots until January  5th.

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Baltimore and Bergers

December 29th, 2008 · No Comments

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My trip to West Virginia took me through Baltimore where we got to see some pretty holiday lights. After my last trip to Baltimore, Thor threatened that he would no longer be my friend if I went to Baltimore again without bringing him back some Berger Cookies. So, Thor, I have Berger Cookies for you.

I tried the Berger Cookies myself. They are cake-y like NYC black and whites, but the frosting to cake ratio is much higher. It’s too much frosting for my taste, unless you are in a frosting mood.

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Bang bang bang!

December 26th, 2008 · No Comments

I am off to West Virginia for the weekend.  There’s no cell service or internet where I’ll be. More time for play!

I leave you with this little clip from the cruise of Leslie O. doing Karaoke.

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